Monday, September 25, 2006
5 languages of love
well..
heard this from zeng-san
very interesting to me..
so i shall share this...
i guess whether you're in or not in a relationship
you'll learn something from this...
getting to know each other better
the 5 languages of love
1. words --- things the person say, sms, etc
2. physical affection --- hugs, kisses, patting you to slp, etc
3. gift giving --- buying presents, noticing things that you like, etc
4. quality time --- doing things both enjoy, quite difficult to define
5. service --- massaging, cooking, teaching, carrying stuff, etc
these are the five main languages in which people show their love..
so there's two aspect to consider: giving and receiving..
giving= how you show your love
receiving= how you would feel loved
so what you're suppose to do:
a. rank them for the both aspect
b. compare results with your partner
c. analyse the results
i guess this will serve to let you see each others' languages
and learn how to show your love in his/her language
even if not able to,
at least appreciate the difference..
never knew there was such things.......
and i though zeng-san only talk cock.
oOps.
interesting...
dictated by the Queen at 2:00 AM
